I ride the bus to school every morning. Usually I am digging in my pockets looking for quarters like a pigeon searching for scraps in Central Park. I have a metro pass, but it’s broken. Most of life’s daily inconveniences are due to those little things you never get around to fixing.
I finally scrounge up the $1.25 and board the bus. Its 7:30 in the morning and my bag is spilling with student’s papers, lesson plans, and empty water bottles. I tend to really look around. I’m vulnerable at this time and so I think too much. That’s how it is in early in the morning. Everything is too fresh.
Every day I see the same people. Mostly they are moms hopping the S2 with their kids. -Climb onto the seat before YOU go through the windshield they say. I’m telling you these bus drivers aren’t kidding around. They plow down 16th street. If you have to stand, well, I hope you have some good shoes on. I kind of appreciate them for that. It’s like they know I hate mornings and I barely made it to the corner on time. If they don’t step on it I am going to be late. When you are teacher you can’t be late. So I smile as we cruise up the hill, because they are watching out for me you see. Like a little guardian angel to start off my day right.
I sit back and watch the regulars board the bus. They watch me. A few are moms bringing their kids to the private school four blocks away from where I teach. All of my kid are on free lunch and I’m happy if they wash their uniforms. Details, I remind myself as they spill in each morning. The moms are looking at me wondering. -Who hired her for gods sake with that hair looking like that. They know I am a teacher because I have my bag full of library books that says Ms. O’Neal on the front. A kid gave it to me and lets be honest it’s a great bag. But I’m trying to stay away from the teach apple cardigans with yellow school buses knitted across my chest. I’m trying. They are eyeing me and wondering. I kind of think we should all join a group, us regulars, and form a bond because we are surviving the daily grind together on this bus. It’s beautiful because it seems there is little time these days to share a moment with strangers.
When we reach 16th and Shepard the same little girl and mother get on. The girl has dark chocolate skin and braids. She is probably 10 or 11. Old enough to start looking out dirty bus windows and getting sad about things. Her mom is tall with long feet and deep eyes-like wells that you cannot see to the bottom of. Endless. She gets on behind her daughter and grips the top of her backpack pushing her forward –Sit down over there. EXCUSE me, go on, sit there, NO not there THERE. The girl eagerly goes for the seat. Her mom sits down with her and she looks around wildly. –---Do you have enough room ma’m? she asks the old women next to her. The women nods –oh yes yes I’m fine. But she motions her daughter closer to her. –Move this way come on now.
Her daughter listens quickly. I can tell she would be a student I would want in my class. Her mom is different from the other moms. I know they aren’t going to the private school, but I wonder where they are heading.
Sometimes the mom comes on with glazed eyes and headphones. She still plays drill sergeant to her daughter-keeping her in check. Almost as if she took her eyes off for a moment maybe the little girl would fall into a pothole on the sidewalk and never get out. She watches her like that. The other mothers, on the other hand, are reading the paper not paying one lick to their kids sitting next to them. I don’t blame them either. I mean they are fine, but this watching the contrast between mothers I’m not sure who to blame. Everything seems too jumbled as if there is no one to blame.
So the mom gets on this one morning with glazed eyes and begins singing out loud. She is sitting next to her daughter, her hand is still gripping the top of her backpack as she belts out Whitney Housten from an old cassesste player. She gazes over to her and sings louder pressing her finger up to her nose. It’s funny to see this contrast. Mommmm, the girl says with a pleading voice. It reminds me of when my mom used to take out her stress of raising five kids on the bagger at the supermarket. –How do you NOT have paper bags left? She’d say. HOW, let me talk to your manager.
The girl is looking at her mom and she is shedding innocence right before my eyes at 7:46 AM. I am sad for her to see her mother high. It baffles me that this is the mother who won’t let her hand off her daughter’s backpack. Maybe this is all an act, I think, this good mom go sit there, no no, don’t squish anyone honey… ACT. Have I been fooled by her every day I wonder?
What kind of mother is she anyway?
The other day the girl gets on alone. She puts in her token and moves directly to the front seat. Her mother is outside pointing at her where to sit. I watch out the stained dirt window. I’m sure the girl is a little confused about things. Her black mixing with Her white. GRAY. She looks like a sweet girl. A kid that does her home-work, and someone that helps the teacher at recess. The bus begins to pull away. The mom is letting her go, and as I look back I see her standing on the corner waving goodbye. The girl sees her and this sudden smile stumbles upon her face. I watch her looking at her mom, and it’s this sudden reaction from within her spilling out. Then slowly she turns around and our eyes hit each other. I look at her. She looks at me. It is a quiet brief exchange.
Her mom starts to walk away, but then stops and looks back to watch the bus go. The girl assumes her mom is gone by now, but I catch her lingering, waiting there on the corner. There she is- just standing-blinking. Maybe hoping she won’t fall into potholes while she is gone. Maybe the mom will spend the day buying cement to pour into her own.
I kind of wish I was a painter then. So I could take out a canvas when I got home that night and paint her face watching her daughter like that. I want to ask her to be in the regular club then, because it isn’t every day strangers give away some of their secrets. We are all trying to step over the cracks spreading up the sidewalk. Things seem so clear and unclear suddenly.
As I get off I smile at the girl. I won’t tell anyone about this, I say with my smile. About what I know about you now. It’s safe with me. There are a million kinds of smiles out there, and this is the kind I give her. She smiles back. Me and the other private school moms with their kids get off. I blink and our paths diverge.
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